But you just cannot spend your whole life to justify your each and every action. You put trust on people and expect their faith in return at least to some primary extent.
You are may be hurt, cheated, betrayed in past. But let me say it’s equally with me and equally with everybody else.
But still we need to trust, we need to give chances to people, we need to give chances to ourselves as well. You can’t punish upcoming new people for your past bitter experiences. You need to trust them from 0 (zero) base level and equally be ready to face negative effects as well. It won’t end. It goes on and on. The only thing you can do is be more cautious and be enough smart to know when enough is enough. You just can’t close doors for everyone. It will lead you to unwanted solitude only. And you, yourself will suffer at in the end.
We are social beings. We need to be social. We need to mingle. We will face every kind of person but we should not generalize everyone. No one can spend his whole life in justifying each and every action to you. There will be unwanted silence sometimes, there will be some hidden parts of stories, and there will be some confusion as well. But when those complex moments arise we need to be more patient. We need to wait for the truth or clarity rather than rushing towards justifications and being angry. We need to have faith in the inherent goodness of others. We need to have faith that they will tell, justify or clear things when they will feel free to do so. We need to give them time.
But most importantly we need to keep our eyes and ears open during the whole process.
Breathe. Smile. Breathe.