We all face confusion. Somewhere, somewhat we face this in life. But it is temporary, and it has to be temporary. You cannot be too confused always. At some point of time you have to decide what you really want to do and once you make a decision, stick to it. Always remember you have made a decision after enough thoughts and considerations only. Never give too much re-thoughts something about what you have already made a decision.
As there is no middle way and there cannot be any “as it goes” clause. Either you have to stay one side completely or you should go to another side completely. It will give you peace and satisfaction. Take your time, give others time but DECIDE. The decision is always important.
Your career, relationships, love life, everywhere decision is important. As far as relationships are concerned they are roller coaster ride. You cannot just leave when it goes down, you have to keep the faith that it will go up also. Once you make the decision of choosing someone than giving full efforts to make that relationship survive. You can never keep it on “if runs ” position. Yes, sometimes a person gets confusion about what he/she really wants; but as a human, how long will you wait around for him/her to figure it out? It’s a thin line between a person being confused and him/her stringing you along (keeping you stuck in his/hers confusing behavior and making you also confused).Make it your business to find out early on, which is which. Your feelings will thank you in the long run.